Non- Violent Communication With Kelly Bryson
In this episode of Sex With Jaiya, I journey up to Santa Cruz to visit Marriage and Family Therapist, and author of Don't Be Nice, Be Real, Kelly Bryson. Kelly is someone I admire and aspire to be more like as I move through the world. I feel that his way of communication with compassion, empathy and excellent listening could be a lifesaver in many relationships. If you aren't getting your needs met, if you feel like you are are often criticizing or being critisized, if you have stopped talking all together, then this is episode is a great one to help you begin to set a foundation upon which to heal and grow. I see 2013 as an opportunity for us to be more authentic, honest and compassionate. The tips and tools Kelly uses are a great starting place. He even got me crying just by being a wonderful listening ear while we were role playing. Watch and learn how you can better communicate with you lover thus deepening and healing your relationship!
Kelly Bryson MA, MFT is the author of the best selling book:
Don’t be Nice, Be Real – Balancing Passion for Self with Compassion for Others.
He has been featured in Elle and Shape magazine, chosen by Barnes and Noble for special promotion, seen on NBC news, ABC AM Northwest, CBS, and heard on NPR, KPBS, KPFK in L.A. A humorist, guitarist/singer/songwriter, & licensed therapist in private practice. He keynotes conventions (National Montessori, California Peace Summit in Salina), is an inspirational speaker, (Speaks at Sunday morning speaker for many churches, etc)Presented at the Association for Global New Thought conference AGNT w/ Marianne Williamson, Jean Houston, etc.) and has been an authorized trainer for the international Center for Nonviolent Communication for over 20 years, and has trained thousands in the U.S., Europe and the Middle East. He trains, presents and consults with groups, corporations (Tony Robbins, Bristol Myers, Paul Mitchell Salons), churches (all flavors), schools, (U.Cal.L.B, Body/Mind College), clubs and all types of organizations. He also studied with E. Stanley Jones, Mahatma Mohandas Gandhi’s concierge and friend.
December 30th, 2012 By jaiya
In this episode, I journey to Mistress Morgana's luxurious, gorgeous space in San Francisco. She took a lot of effort to make sure that no detail was overlooked and that her professional dungeon space was inviting, and sensually exquisite. We'll take you on a tour and give you ideas to make over your play space or create one from scratch. Even how to make your ordindary bedroom have some surprise elements that can be used for sensory play or restraint. Think "This Old Dungeon"! I sure wish D.Love had been with me, since he's a designer and he's into Kink Play, it would have been perfect for him. Oh, well he's just going to have to watch!
Want more about Mistress Morgana, what she does and how to visit her space? CLICK HERE TO VISIT HER SITE!
December 15th, 2012 By jaiya
Orgasmic Yoga & Breathing with Joseph Kramer Ph.D.
One of my most powerful mentors has been Joseph Kramer Ph.D. While in San Francisco I interviewed him on his new passion Orgasmic Yoga! Why is it important to have a sexual practice? What is erotically possible? How can using breath, sound and touch enhance your sex life? In this episode Joesph and I discuss the importance of these tools and share some breathing techniques bound to increase your pleasure and well, get you high on orgasmic sensations. When it comes to embodiment and sex, Joseph Kramer knows his stuff! That's why I love him so much. Enjoy!
After ten years as a Jesuit, Joseph Kramer devoted his life to bringing erotic pleasure to himself and to the world. In 1984, he founded the Body Electric School where he trained thousands of professional masseurs and erotic bodyworkers. In 1992, he started the Erospirit Research Institute, a think tank exploring the connection between spirituality and sexuality. In 1999, he founded The New School of Erotic Touch. He is Professor of Somatic Sexology at the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco. He has produced over a dozen educational DVDs teaching erotic touch, which are available on his site.
December 8th, 2012 By jaiya
THE POWER OF EROTIC ART - The Erotic Heritage Museum
Las Vegas. Home to casinos, show girls,and lots of fun debauchery, but just off the strip is a wonderful place called the Erotic Heritage Museum. I went for a visit and was given a grand tour by the art director and resident curator Dorian Gomez. Dorian showed me some very powerful exhibits like Nick Karras's Petals and the ancient de-flowering tools. There is a lot we can learn from erotic art and I believe that it can empower us in many ways. My question is "What makes it art versus something profane?" I of course have my own taste. I invite you to share yours
November 26th, 2012 By jaiya
How To Play With Submission and Dominance in the Bedroom
(Jaiya Receives A Lesson From A Professional Dominatrix)
Ever wondered how to get your lover to surrender into pleasure? Have you wanted to play with themes of submission and dominance but weren't quite sure how to? D.Love is so intrigued by the themes of submission and dominance yet, he often "tops from the bottom" as they say in the BDSM world. So I went to see a professional dominatrix, miss Kaila Yi, to get a lesson on the arts of submission and dominance. She got all 50 Shades on and taught me a few things that really surprised me. Yes, in order for me to learn how to be more dominant in the bedroom I had to first learn the art of surrender and submission - not an easy thing for me, but Kaila Yi pulled it off! Make sure to watch to the end to see our interactive session. D.Love was so sorry he missed this one!
From Kaila Yi's Website
I initially embarked upon My journey to become a Professional Dominatrix with an innocent fascination triggered by a desire to explore and more fully understand the endless possibilities of reward/punishment scenarios, humiliation, corporal punishment, fetishes, and D/s psychology. Over time, this curiosity has deepened into a profound passion, celebration and appreciation of the powerful, transcendental nature of BDSM.
Over the years, I have been taught and mentored by legends in the scene including Midori and Mistress Simone Justice. I am proud to play with a style and fashion that is uniquely My own. I possess incredible intuition which allows Me to draw out the most profound elements of submission and servitude in your core self without mercy, sweetly savoring every moment of the exchange in the process.
November 16th, 2012 By jaiya